Thursday, May 26, 2011

A BLOG ABOUT IT ALL: IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT; THAT'S HOW THEY ARE!!!

A BLOG ABOUT IT ALL: IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT; THAT'S HOW THEY ARE!!!: "Studies show that, if a person has sailed through life 'WITHOUT EVER' hitting the rough waters that rock the rest of us, then 'BE AWARE'.  !..."

Monday, May 23, 2011

IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT; THAT'S HOW THEY ARE!!!

Studies show that, if a person has sailed through life "WITHOUT EVER" hitting the rough waters that rock the rest of us, then "BE AWARE". !!!  People who were more privileged as a child suffer from a sense of "Entitlement"....In other words, "THE BRATTY CHILD SYNDROME".

They may feel rules don’t apply to them. They are used to getting what they want and they are so used to everything going their way. They have never had to work hard at anything because everything has always come so easy to them without any effort. They tend to give up very easily, and they never seem to put much an effort towards anything. When things are not the way they like, they tend to run from their problems rather than try to resolve the problem. They usually have short- term relationships. Well, as a child being "Spoiled" may have been "O.K", but it becomes very problematic as an adult especially when it comes to relationships, and dealing with real life issues.

In a relationship, this becomes a very big problem when it comes to dealing with certain issues. It’s normal; all relationships have disagreements at one time or another. It is all about how you handle and work through those issues. That is what make a relationship last. Unfortunately, if your mate has the ""THE BRATTY CHILD SYNDROME", it is more likely that the relationship wont last simply because they are less willing to resolve a particular issue. It is much easier for them to just give up on the issue, rather than to sit and talk it out... #1 SIGN OF A "DEAD END" RALATIONSHIP:: (((LACK OF COMMUNICATION))).   Because for so long everything have always been handed to them already perfect, they don’t know how to adjust to a situation that is not to their liking. So rather than try to work things out, they would much prefer to move on to something that requires a little less work. In other words they will always run from their problems so they will tend to find themselves in many short-term relationships than they would in long-term relationships.

Dealing with real life issues will also be a challenge to anyone who has the “BRATTY CHILD SYNDROME”. As a spoil child they become very dependant, so as an adult this becomes a problem because they will look for someone else to fix and handle all their problem, whether it is financially, home or work. They are less like to accept the consequences for their actions. They also tend to depend on someone else to make things happen rather than trying to make things happen for themselves, on their own.